‘I tried unsuccessfully to abort the pregnancy…after the father left ’
Father: I didn’t divorce her, I only left the house after a minor argument
The astounding news that a baby girl was born with a rosary, or what
is known in Islam as Tesbah, shook the ancient town of Bida in Bida
local council area of Niger State, to its foundations, Sunday, last
week. The rosary, which was first removed before the baby’s placenta
came out, was afterwards festooned to her neck.
The birth had attracted mammoth crowd to the home of a rather perplexed mother of the baby.
And for the local photographers in the area, it was an opportunity to
make brisk business, selling the pictures of the less than a day-old
baby to members of the public in front of the house, at N100 per copy.
The Bida incident, curiously, broke a few months after it was
reported that a baby was born in Lagos, clutching the Holy Quran, a
scenario that also drew crowd.
When our correspondent visited the Bida residence of the rosary
bearing-baby, a day after she was born, it was an herculean task gaining
access into the compound already jam-packed with sturging crowd that
sought to catch glimpses of the mystery baby.
Eventually, gaining entry into the compound, Sunday Mirror met
Kadijat Issa, the 28 years old mother of the miraculous child, who
looked happy. Seated, she was sandwiched between members of her family,
away from the miracle child who was locked up in a room, shielded from
the anxious crowd of onlookers, many who were poised to take photo shots
of the baby with their mobile phones and cameras
Kadijat, the mum, had moved to her brother’s house in the Kutaworo
area of Bida as her husband left her shortly after she became pregnant.
She said she was happy because she had wanted a female child having had
two boys already. Her brother’s house at Kutaworo area of Bida, not far
from Alhaji Muhammadu Bello Mansabas’ residence, the man with over 90
wives all living in his home.
She recalled how she almost tried to abort the pregnancy because her
husband left the marriage over some minor misunderstanding, the month
she discovered she had taken in. She said but for providence, the foetus
would have been aborted.
Narrating her story that morning, Kadijat, a fashion designer
alongside her husband, Zubairu Issa, who both hail from Babaloma in
Kwara State, has not had rest, neither had the child, after delivery.
This is because of the hundreds of people that had been besieging the
house to see the mystery child from the time she arrived home from the
clinic where she was delivered the child.
She recalled that she suffered some ‘sharp pains’ two days to
delivery, attributing it to the ‘rosary in the neck of the baby in my
womb. She said there was nothing unusual during the pregnancy, until the
pangs of labour took her to a local midwife around the area that
delivered her of the baby. “To my greatest shock, when my baby arrived,
she came with a tesbah.”
She said she noticed she was pregnant the month her husband left her
over some unresolved disagreement and decided to terminate it by taking
injections and drugs.
She said this was because her husband, Mallam Zubairu Issa, had left
her and their two other children and she was finding hard to care for
them. But, after all efforts failed to abort the foetus, she was forced
to rest her faith in God to see her through. Kadijat said she could not
even afford to go to the hospital for ante-natal care throughout the
period, until the labour started.
Even when the pangs of labour came, she preferred to remain at home
and have the baby. But it was her family that forced her to go to the
home of a retired midwife, Mallam Abubakar Baiwa Shasha, who delivered
her of the baby. “I am just a nominal Muslim, but God chooses to bless
me with this miraculous baby. I was shocked, when I saw the Tesbah that
came out black and later turned white after we cleaned it.
“I hardly pray, but with the delivery of this baby, I believe, God is
calling me to pray more.” She said she never knew what manner of child
she was carrying and had never experienced any difficulties, except for
some occasional sharp pains on the right side of her stomach two months
to her delivery of the baby. Speaking also, the father of the child,
Mallam Zubairu Issa, 30 years, said, “I am still shocked that my baby
was born with a tesbah.
I can’t believe that this can happen to me. In all my life, I have
only heard of such occurrence, but have never seen it physically.” He
said he was happy, when the news came to him that his wife had given
birth and that the child was delivered with a prayer tesbah. He also
denied walking out on the marriage, saying he goes home daily to check
on his family members at Eshata area of Bida where they reside.
Asked whether the birth of the baby will help reconcile them, Issah,
replied, ‘’The birth of the baby will not be the basis to bring us back
together because I never left my marriage, I only left the house over a
small misunderstanding, I did not divorce my wife
He, however, called on government to assist them financially to
enable him properly care for his family, as the money they both make
from their occupation as fashion designers is not enough to carter for
the needs of his growing family.
Issah also explained that the miracle baby was taken to the Etsu Nupe
palace, where the Emir, Alhaji Yayaha Abubakar, prayed for the baby,
the whole family and advised them to live in peace and bring up their
children according to the tenets of Islam.
Abubakar Baiwa Shasha, a 65-year-old retired health worker in the
state that took delivery of the baby, in an interview, said Kadijat was
brought to him at 12.30pm on Sunday in labour with complaint of waist
and abdominal pains that were all signs of labour.
When he conducted a check, he noticed that the child was about to
come. He explained that within 30 minutes of her arrival, she was
delivered of her child, saying that it was at the point of delivery that
he saw the tesbah drop and was followed by the foetus, few minutes
later.
“Before the child came out, the Tesbah was the first. It was black,
and immersed in blood and after showing it to the woman, I washed it and
soon, it turned white. The surprise in all this is that there was no
blood stain on the baby as with other deliveries I conducted in my 36
years of taking delivery. She came out clean as if she was washed clean
before delivery.
I then called the family members and presented the child to them and
faced the mother, who had no problem at all.” On his reaction when he
saw the mystery, Shasha said, “ I was not confused, neither surprised.
It is my job, I was not afraid. She is a normal child like any other
child. All I can say is, it is the work of God and I praise Him for it.”
When the parents alongside the child visited, Alhaji Bello Mansaba
that day, after praying for the child, he told the crowd that gathered
that what happened, “is just the mysteries and wonders of Allah (God)
that nothing is impossible for Him and to show that Islam is the way.”
He also said people should expect more of these signs as prove of
God’s wonders, while urging Christians and Muslims to live in peace with
one another for the growth and development of the nation. Corroborating
Mansaba, Sheik Alhassan Wasagi, a popular Islamic scholar in the state,
said the birth of the baby showed that God is able to do what He wants
and to prove that nothing is beyond Him.
“God wants to prove to us Muslims that certain things are possible
with Him. We have seen Him use trees, fish, stones with Arabic
inscriptions on these things to prove He is God. Even in Lagos, we heard
recently that a woman delivered a child with the Holy Quran.
These all go to show the authenticity of Islam as a religion.”
However, the Chief Medical Director of the Minna General Hospital, Dr.
Ibrahm Kolo, viewed the scenario differently. He said medically, there
are no scientific explanations as to how a woman would deliver a baby
with a rosary; hence explanation to such occurrence is better handled by
the spiritualists, traditional and herbal practitioners.
Dr. Kolo stated that something close to that may occur among woman
when the Intral Uterine Contraceptive Device, IUCT used for family
planning fails, and the woman becomes pregnant, thereby forcing both the
baby and the device to live together in the womb, until the time of
delivery.
He added, “ That way, the baby will live and grow with the device in
the mothers’ womb and when it is about to be delivered, the child may
grap the device and both will come out together, but even then, such
cases are very rare. However, by and large, nothing is impossible with
God.”
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