Alero Melaye denies that she was beaten up by Hubby Dino and says that despite his imperfections that she still loves him.
Dino Melaye's ex Tokunbo and his new wife Alero exchanged a couple of sms' which went viral.Alero Melaye,Dino's new wife contacted his ex and they compared notes.
Why would anyone want to contact their husbands ex wife?why did she leave?
The need to talk to Alero after the SMS messages between her and Tokunbo hit the internet became a primary assignment for me.I was on a mission to find out if indeed she chatted with Tokunbo and why... i had questions that only Alero could answer.
After several attempts to contact her failed,Alero took my call on Sunday July 6,2014 and agreed to be interviewed
I asked her all
the questions in a rush because i wanted quick answers,She responded to
every question and i tried not to push because of her 'heavy' status.I
just asked and listened as she explained....
SMS to Tokunbo ?
‘’Yes,Stella i
exchanged SMS with Tokunbo but i only did that because i thought it
would remain between us and besides i needed to connect with someone who
might understand where i was coming from.
Why Tokunbo?
‘’Tokunbo sent
me a long mail earlier this year detailing all the bad sides of Dino and
what she had lived with.At the point i contacted her,some of what she
said made sense and because of my state of mind,i stupidly thought i
could talk to her about some of her experience which i could relate
with.The experience i refer to has nothing to do with violence in any
form.
The mail she
sent me had a phone number and at the time i contacted her i needed to
talk.I deeply regret contacting her and I feel bad that she made the
contents of our exchange public even though i asked her not to and
assumed she would be private about it.
I also needed
her to know that i wasn’t the reason her marriage ended,at the time i
met Dino,he told me he was divorced and i believed him''.
Domestic Violence?
‘’Let me state
here now that Dino might be a lot of things but he never beat me and
thats the truth.there were just some things i couldn’t handle and that
was what i referred to as living in Tokunbo’s hell for six months.i did
not say he beat me.saying anything of such would be a big lie.
I am not saying
this because anyone asked me to, i am only trying to correct a wrong
impression that has been blown out of proportion.Dino has never laid a
finger on me.keeping quiet on this means consent to the falsehood being
spread and I am speaking up now to correct the wrong impression my chat
with Tokunbo might have caused.
Why leave?
‘’I left for
reasons best known to Dino and i which had nothing to do with any form
of Violence towards me. I just needed some space and quiet to think but
regardless of my actions and his imperfections,i still hold him in high
regard and still love him very much.Dino is a good man but like everyone
else he is not perfect and he is still my husband''.
Any chance of reconciliation?
‘’I said a lot
of things concerning Dino to Tokunbo out of anger which i deeply regret
but never say never.Life is always full of surprises''.
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