Serial
mistress Lee Romain reckons married men make better lovers – and
insists that far from wrecking marriages, her flings actually improve
her fellas’ relationships.
The
44-year-old business consultant says: “I prefer them because they’ve
only had one woman to please for a very long time before they meet me —
and it’s much easier to perfect their skill.
“Married
men are wonderful — they tell you that you are beautiful, they take you
out for delicious meals, they give you presents and have lovely
manners, as they are well trained by their wives.
“Because
so many of the men I meet hardly get any sèx from their wives they are
so grateful in bed and they really want to please you. I’m definitely
not looking to split up marriages — I think I actually enhance them.
“Some
of the men I see say their marriages are much better because they are
having sèx with me. They go home much happier to their wives. One man
stopped seeing me because his sèx life with his wife improved so much.”
Lee
started having affairs with married men after her partner, who was 28
years her senior, became impotent through illness. He finally died after
they had been together eight years.
She
recalls: “I am a very lively and attractive woman and the lack of sèx
was driving me crazy. I even took up running marathons to try to get rid
of my sèxual energy.
“Then I found an extra-marital website which caters for married people who want affairs, but not to destroy their marriages.
“It
was ideal — I got all the fun of a date, fabulous sèx with a very
grateful man and none of the responsibility of a relationship.
“I
didn’t feel guilty then and I don’t feel guilty now. After my partner
died, instead of looking for a new relationship with a single man, I
prefer to date married men.”
Londoner
Lee has had affairs with seven married men since 2010 and says: “I’m
currently seeing a businessman who is in his late 50s, who lives outside
London.
“He’s married with children. He doesn’t want a divorce and that is so important to me.
“If a married man I am seeing says he wants a divorce I run a mile and end it straight away.
“I have no intention of getting caught up in a divorce. I don’t see myself as a husband stealer and I never feel guilty.
“I
am really busy with work and don’t have the time to give to a proper
relationship. I see my married lover twice a month and we really make
the most of those two days. We always meet at a hotel, usually in
central London, and it’s primarily about the sèx.
“We
go out for a meal but we both know why we are there. I get hassle-free,
fantastic sèx and I am wined and dined by men who are lovely to me,
treat me really well and don’t make any demands on me.
“I
aim to have a monogamous relationship with a married man but I always
keep my eyes open for attractive new men joining the site. I will meet
them for lunch to see if they have potential.
“There
are so many more women like me around. I am financially independent,
adore sèx and am looking to have a lot of fun without all the ties of a
full-time relationship.
“The
internet has made infidelity so accessible and, believe me, it’s
happening a lot. So many people are joining these websites because it is
so easy. And if you are careful, you won’t get caught. The men I meet
aren’t sleazy — they are normal men who aren’t getting enough sèx at
home and want to have problem-free, mind-blowing sèxual fun with an
attractive woman like me.”
And it seems there are more and more men willing to fulfil Lee’s desires.
Recent
research by an extra-marital affairs website reveals that more than 25
per cent of married men — as well as more than 18 per cent of married
women — have cheated at least once in the past year.
And most cheaters now meet their partners via the web.
With more than a million married men registered online, Lee is just one of the women happy to meet their needs.
In
fact the alternative — meeting unattached men — fills Lee with horror.
She says: “Single men my age — in their 40s — are a nightmare. They tend
to have multiple lovers and are very selfish in bed. They only think of
their own gratification, and they are so rude. If they don’t get what
they want from you, they’ll just roll over and ring someone else and get
her to come over.
“They have a tremendous amount of baggage. Often they have been through a hideous divorce and they have no money.
“They
insist on you paying 50/50 for a meal, then they moan on about their
ex-wife and not seeing their kids. A lot of men my age seem to be having
a mid-life crisis and are very angry.
“I
don’t want all that hassle — I want fun, problem-free dates with
fantastic sèx. I don’t want to listen to a man my age whingeing on about
his ex or looking over my shoulder to keep his options open. I like to
keep it airy and light, and have a laugh. Men who go on extra-marital
websites are just looking for great sèx. In my experience, they join
because their wives won’t have sèx with them or indulge their
fantasies.”
Lee
adds that the internet has made cheating very easy for bored men and
says: “If I was married, I’d keep a very close eye on my husband. It is
incredible how many offers I get online.
“My inbox is bursting with emails from men wanting to set up a date.
“For
example, this weekend, I am having lunch with a gorgeous new married
man, then I am meeting my long-term married lover for dinner in a smart
restaurant.
“I’m
very naughty, I love to surprise my married lovers. I am taking my
latest to a private sèx party which will be held at a discreet address
in London. These are invite -only parties, held in residential houses.
They are aimed at men looking for outrageous sèxual fun and women who
are bisèxual or bi-curious.
“I
started going to these parties a few years ago and found them to be the
most amazing fun. I love to take very inexperienced married men, their
eyes are out on stalks.
“You can dress in the most outrageous manner — I’ll wear sèxy lingerie, with a mask with feathers on it.
“The
men become extremely aroused — when we go back to our hotel, they are
animals in bed. When they first go to the parties they just stare. Then
gradually they get more involved as women start kissing and touching
them.
“It’s
a very erotic experience. I am an exhibitionist so I have no problem
with being sèxually aggressive with women at the parties.
“And when my married lovers have been once, they definitely want to go again.”
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